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My BF and I love to hold hands in public. Do you two hold hands when out and about?

We do for the most part. If we are in places that we perceive as not being "friendly," we won't. On a personal note, when you are deep in the closet for the majority of your life, there are certain habits you form which are hard to break. I sometimes have moments where I instinctualy will pull away from Tito when people approach. I'm getting better, but habits are hard to break.
-Ronny

I'll be honest. I have a slight bone defect in my forearms that limits my radial movement. It's hardly noticeable, but it's enough to make holding hands physically awkward and sometimes uncomfortable. At the right angle, sure we do. :) Most of the time though, like walking around and stuff, it isn't all that enjoyable because I have to pivot my shoulder to be able to hold hands and move at the same time. I like to blame living in the ghettos of north Jersey during my most formative years but plenty of people who did too don't have this particular birth defect. ;-)

-Tito

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